Monday, June 24, 2013

6/24/2013

Well, this has been my second week in the land. So exciting! It has been so much fun and i am learning so much every day. As of right now, the work is a little slow, but the field is ready to harvest and there are more than we can teach in Aalborg, so we'll find the people and we'll get to teaching them :)

There's actually one lady here that says that she was baptized into the church when she lived in Bountiful when she was a child, but when her family moved back to Denmark, they couldn't find an lds church, so they became inactive. The missionaries found her a few weeks ago. We've been visiting her and teaching her about the church so she knows what everyone's talking about when she goes to church. When we were talking to her one day with the Elders, she told us that she was baptized when she was six and moved back before she was 8. What? That doesn't quite fit into our calculations. It's also strange that she doesn't remember her baptism... so we decided that she's probably not even a member, but she thinks she is. Crazy! So, we might be having a baptism here soon :)

This week we went knocking (or tracting).  In Danish it's called Banking, which literally means knocking so that's what we call it here. Anyway, we went knocking and had a really great time. We were in a much nicer neighborhood by the church. The houses were all so cool looking! Especially their doors. I know, it's a strange thing to think is so col, but it's true. The doors were really cool looking. There were some modern looking doors, then antique looking doors, then doors with cool designs. A lot of them had knockers, which i thought was really cool :) But, that's not what i was going to tell you. We were knocking at one particular house that had a glass door. The whole wall was actually glass. The guy poked his head around the corner to see who it was, then tried to hide from us. That doesn't really work when you've got a glass wall... so, he decided to man-up and answer his door. He walked out and he wasn't wearing pants! Awkward! haha He was wearing these really small black underwear, and it didn't help that he was a big guy. We talked to him for a minute and left him with a pamphlet. He was really nice, but it was really strange that he wasn't wearing pants. Welcome to Denmark! haha

We went to visit a member and had such a nice time. Her name was Mae-Britt. She gave us a little tea party with hot chocolate (because it's almost that cold some days) and delicious Danish pastries. Yum! I had so much fun! We only ever played with tea sets as a kid and imagined what it would be like, and here i was, having a for real tea party in Denmark with the sweetest lady and i couldn't understand a word she said! It was so great! I love tea parties!

This week we had zone conference in Århus. It's kind of a long train ride down to århus, so the senior couple there told us that we could come stay with them the night before. They spoiled us rotten! They had delicious is (ice cream) for us, and m&m's, and they cooked us breakfast and everything! It was a blast! We helped them with all the preparations for the training and had some nice little chats with them. They were just the greatest. I guess all the Elders were pretty jealous, though, because none of them are even allowed inside of their apartment, yet we got to stay the night. That's what we get for being the only sisters in the entire zone, though :) And, they asked us to come back for the next zone training :) I am so excited!

Well, those were the highlights of my week. It was a great week. We had tons of fun and got lots of work done :) Now, we just need investigators.

Kærlighed,

Søster Erin Handley



Questions:

Do you dream in Danish?
       No, i do not dream in Danish yet. Most of my dreams lately haven't actually had any sort of language, just pictures and really frustrating thoughts haha I keep dreaming that i left important stuff in Missouri and i can't get new stuff here. I'm sure i'll eventually dream in Danish because everyone out here says that eventually they do.

Are you loving the food?
 The food here is amazing! I love just about everything, except for the leverpostej which is literally liver paste. Gross! but everything else is amazing, especially their desserts! This is not going to be good for me. And, i found that they do have some good peanut butter here :) Day made! There are actually a lot of Danes her in Aalborg that really like peanut butter, our ward mission leader included :) I tried my first Danish hot dog this week. It was so much better than American hot dogs! They have this delicious sauce called Remoulede that is really good. We made our own all Danish meal yesterday that was AMAZING! I've got the recipe in the cook book i bought last p-day. It's the cook book that everyone has here and it's the one that everyone suggested to buy. The best part is, we found it for 1/3 of the price! Heck yes!

Have you received any mail yet?
 Yes i have :) There was a letter waiting for me at the mission office from President Lawrence, so that was cool. Then, this week i got a letter from Grandma Putscher and from Luke. Luke's in Sweden so not too far from me and the letters here can be 50 grams, so he sent me a Swedish candy bar. It was pretty cool :)

How are you doing with the time change?
 I'm still having a hard time with the jet lag. 8 hours is a big time difference, but it's getting better every day. I think the biggest problem is that we're far enough north that the sun never actually goes down here in the summer. That makes it hard to go to sleep and all that, but it's kind of cool. I woke up in the middle of the night once, it was 2 or 3 am, and it was still fairly light outside.

How do you like the weather?
 It's kinda cold up here. Not crazy cold, but definitely cold compared to the humid 90's it was in Missouri! It's cool enough to still wear a light sweater all day and we make sure to always have a jacket handy because the weather likes to change a lot. There's nothing here to stop the wind or the clouds so one minute it could be warm and sunny, and the next it could be cool and rainy. It rains a lot, but not heavy rain too often. The weather's really calm, too. The rain is usually pretty light and gentle. It's pretty pleasant, but it definitely does not feel like June! haha

What are the sun sets like?
 The sunsets here are BEAUTIFUL! I've tried to get pictures, but the pictures definitely do not do it justice. They're this beautiful pink and orange color. They're to die for! It's absolutely wonderful.

Are you near the ocean?
 We're pretty close, but i couldn't tell you exactly how close we are. Aalborgh does border a fjord, which is really cool. I've taken lots of pictures of that. Fun fact for you: No matter where you are in Denmark, you are within 60 miles (maybe even kalometers) of the ocean. :)

Are you able to talk to people?
 I am a pro at pretending to know what people are saying :) MTC Danish and real life Danish are very different haha so it's really difficult to understand what people are saying to me, but if i can get the gist of what they are saying, i can usually answer back. It helps that a lot of the members, especially the young adult and younger families, know English as well. They're really good at walking me through a conversation so i can talk. I'm understanding more and more every day so hopefully soon i'll be able to have a full for real conversation :)

Have you eaten any danishes or real chocolate?
 This week we actually went to a for real Danish bakery in Århus when we went to Zone training. It was absolutely delicious! All of the pastries here are heavenly. We also went to a member's house to visit and she set up a cute little tea paty for us :) I guess everyone does that here, which is pretty cool :) We had little tea-cups on saucers and we drank hot chocolate, then we had these delicious pastries with chocolate and vanilla frosting, and a jordbær tart (strawberry tart) that was absolutely delicious! It was absolutely wonderful. Apparently we're going to another house this week where the lady sets up elaborate tea parties for the missionaries. I'm excited for that :)

Sunday, June 23, 2013

Pictures 6/17/2013

 The fountain at the Frederiksberg castle
 The suit of armor that i thought was pretty cool
 There's one of me eating a kebab
Erin was so excited to see the Kristus, it was all she talked about. She tells how it was an inspired statue, and how you could feel the spirit.

Me in front of Danmarks Temple

DANMARK! 6/17/2013

Hej Alle!
Jeg er i Danmark! Jeg er so begejstre! (I am so excited) It feels great to be here! IT's all so strange and new, like how everyone speaks a different language, all the road signs are in Danish, the money is different, and the bathroom sink connects to the shower. Just like in the Best Two Years! haha Made me laugh!

When we got off the plane, i expected to be crazy nervous and to feel out of place, but once i walked across the international line into Denmark, i got this feeling of being home, like i was back in Tooele. Everything was different and i couldn't understand anything anyone said to me, but it didn't matter because i was home. It was amazing.

Our mission president and his wife are so cool! I love them! They told us how they got the call to come out here and they literally dropped everything to be here. It is amazing to me. They were so excited to have us all here finally and the members were too. They told us that the members her in Danmark have been praying for us all to get our visas because it means so much to them to have us here. The whole mission is excited! I love it! The members in Kobenhavn made us a delicious dinner and welcomed us to the country. They taught us some of the customs and answered all of our million questions. It was great!

The next day they took us all over the place and showed us all the cool sites. We got to go to the Frederiksberg Castle. So cool! I was inside a FOR REAL CASTLE! It was really neat, and had a lot of really cool history. I took a million and a half pictures. If i can figure out how to attach them i will. (It's kind of hard since everything is in Danish on this computer) There were suits of armor, crazy pictures, and a ballroom! It was awesom! I loved being there and hearing all the cool stories. One of the couples came with us and showed us around. They had so much knowledge about their country. I loved it!

Next we went to ^^^^^ and saw the Kristus and all of the statues of the apostles. So cool! It was all so inspired, you can tell just by looking at it. That was really neat. I took tons of pictures there. I'll send them sometime, somehow.

We contacted that day, which was interesting. We didn't quite know how to get past the first sentence, si ut was a bit nerve-wracking, but then everyone denied us so it all turned out good :) I was just so happy to hear Danish that i didn't care haha

The next day they gave us a little bit of training and gave us our assignments. That was really cool! I really lucked out with my assignment. I am with Søster Bishop, who was in my district in the MTC, and Søster Christensen who is almost to the point of going home. They're both amazing and we work very well together. We're serving in Ålborg (or Aalborg if you don't have the cool keyboard). They were already in Ålborg, so i had to ride a train out to them. There were a few others on the train as well, but only me and two other Ældstre were going as far as i was. If you look at a map of Danmark, Ålborg is almost to the northern part of Jylland. It's not quite so far up there, but it is the northernmost part that søstre can serve, and we are the first søstre to serve there, as far as i know. Anyway, so we had a forever long trainride and apparently some guy in the back kept yelling a whole bunch of Danish profanities because he was mad that the train wasn't going faster, but i couldn't tell, so it's all good :)

Ålborg is so cool! There are little bike roads everywhere and everyone rides a bike. They have small parking lots everywhere, then a million bike racks. It's so cool! The houses are all adorable and super small. They basically live in th ebare minimum of space they need. It's kind of cool.

Our apartment is super nice. Apparently it's the nicest one in the mission for the missionaries. The nice onces usually go to the couples. In September it'll go back to a couple, but until then, we're going to enjoy it :) It's really small, but the space is used ver efficiently. The entryway doubles as our closet, so we all have little closets there, then to the left is our livingroom/dining room/library. Then we have a small kitchen that we absolutely love, and a tiny bedroom where we have a bunkbed and then my bed.

We have a car that we share with the Ældstre here in Ålborg until September when we'll get a couple, so that's nice, but we bike more than we drive. Right now, i'm borrowing a really crappy bike from a member until the bike prices go down. I guess they fluctuate quite often and right now they're at a high. We got caught in our first rainstorm while we were out biking. It was so cool! Any normal person would have hated it, but i am not normal and i loved it! It was absolutely freezing cold and we were wet to the bone! It was great! I just kept thinking: I'm in the rain, on a bike, freezing, IN DENMARK! Love it! Someday it'll wear off, but as of right now, it's so exciting and happy to be here :)

I have a new motto that i go by. I decided that i don't have control over 90% of the things that happen to me, so i might as well be flexible about it and make the best out of everything. This new motto is: Jeg kan gøre det! or I can do that! I say it a million times a day and i live it to the best of my abilities. When my best isn't enough, i always have a little (actually, a ton) of help from our savior. With Him, i can do anything!

Well, i've written a whole novel here so i'll end it now so i won't take up too much time. I made it to Denmark and i'm super excited to be here serving the Lord. Je elsker jer!
Kærlighed,

Søster Handley

6/3/2013

Oh what a week! It feels like i've been here forever, though. It's a good forever. I'm really getting into the work and i'm loving my companionship!
This week we did a lot of service. We don't have too many investigators since everyone out here has already "found Jesus". I just find it interesting that all these people that have found Jesus don't even know which church they go to or what Christ did for them. Anyway...
We helped a lady named Valerie move. She is a sweet lady. She was a former investigator they had to drop since she quit progressing. I think she's just not quite ready, but i feel like we've all been planting seeds. She remembers what we talk to her about and she's all for taking the discussions again, so that's good. I have high hopes for her.
We work and work and work all day and come back to the apartment exhausted each night. We still have fun though :)
This week we baptized Mator! haha I wish! We did, however, find Mater on the side of the road. We took pictures and gave him a book of mormon haha. I'd send them but i don't have my camera on me now.
I hope everyone had a good week! I'll email again next week!
Jeg elsker Jer!

Sister/Hermana Handley

Mexico, Missouri 5/28/2013

Hallo alle!
I hope this week's email finds everyone well. These last couple of weeks have been CRAZY!
All but two of the sisters in my MTC district were reassigned to St Louis Missouri. It was nice to all come together and to have familiar faces all around.
THe mission president and his wife, President and Sister Clark, have been very welcoming to us. They learned a few Danish words to welcome us and have called in to check on us a few times which has been very nice.
On Wednesday we had our transfer meeting. They had all of us new missionaries read from the pulpit where we are going and who our new companions are. When my turn came i read off Sister Proctor and Sister Leavitt. We would be serving in the Mexico Missouri area. WHat? Mexico? They came up to me and said "Hola Hermana!" AHHH! All i could think of was "That ain't the language they taught me in the MTC!" haha But don't worry, most of the people here speak English. Mostly...
I love my new companions. We get along really well and we all teach together. It's weird teaching in english, but even more weird having the chance to say something, but it's good. Every night is like a big sleepover and we make everything fun.
I have found that tracting is so much fun! Never thought it would be possible. It's cool to be able to meet so many different people and to hear so many different stories. The people out here are great.
Missouri is a really pretty part of the country. THe only thing i have a problem with is the humidity. It's doing some strange things to my hair, and the bugs are atrocious! But it's not too bad. I love all the green and all the trees and the pretty clouds. Everyday out here is a cloud watching day, unless it's raining.
I hope everyone is doing well! I have to get going now, but i'll email next week again.
Vises!

Soster Erin Handley

Week 6 5/14/2013

Hallo alle!
Last week in the mtc! AHHH!!!! Crazy how time flies! I can't even believe it! It feels like we just got here. I've seen 5 or 6 friends come and go and i'm still content with staying here. Don't get me wrong, i'm super excited to go to Denmark and teach real people and bring them to this wonderful gospel, but i love my district and my teachers.
This week was quite interesting. IT was a great week. We had a lot of laughs and even more amazing spiritual experiences. This place is just a constant spiritual high.  love it!
We taught a lesson to Søren this week. We were teaching him about the law of chastity in Danish, which is awkward enough, but then the words for prostitute and obedience are very similar. I'm pretty sure that we may have told him to be a prostitute about the law of chastity a few times... woops haha To make things worse, one of the søstre in my companionship accidentally grabbed a swedish pamphlet for the law of chastity. The words in swedish and danish are very similar, but the letter placement is very different. She tried to sound it out and accidentally said the s-word... haha we couldn't stop laughing the whole lesson! Every time anyone said that word we just laughed and laughed. It didn't help that bro williamson makes really funny faces when he's trying not to laugh. haha it was an interesting lesson.
 So, we got our travel plans this week. Crazy to think that on Tuesday i could be on a whole other continent, in a new country speaking DANISH! AHH!!! Like Frenchy always says, it's just a hop skip and a boat ride away. Well, more of a plane ride. It's crazy to think that it's so close.
We don't really know what's going on with our visa's at the moment. The last group didn't get theirs, but then again, on all of their paperwork it says they are coming into the country the same day as us since they moved them back 6 weeks. We all fasted this last sunday for them, including our teachers, and we have made it a goal this week to be exactly obedient, since obedience brings power. That includes getting up 5 min early so we make sure we are all out of bed on time and we hava community prayer. We make sure not to be a minute early or a minute late to anything and we go the extra mile to make sure we are EXACTLY obedient. That includes crossing between the lines of the cross walk at the temple, not eating anything at all in the classroom except for mints (That's a hard one), turning all lights of at exactly 10:30 and changing our laundry time on p-day. (apparently we have a p-day schedule no one knew about). It's only the second day but it's already been hard. It was especially hard for our companionship yesterday. We all decided that it's because we all prayed for patience and exact obedience at the same time. Big mistake... haha I think we've worked out most of the kinks. It helps to have the spirit on your side.
This Sunday was absolutely amazing. We had some amazing speakers. Relief society was especially amazing. The spirit was so strong. Sister Janice Kapp Perry who wrote songs like A Child's Prayer, Helaman's Army, and I Belong To The Church of Jesus Christ came to talk to us. SHe also wrote the music to As Sisters in Zion. She gave a beautiful talk on the sanctification of a missionary and simplicity in music and in words. She wrote another song with the tune of As Sisters In Zion that is the sister missionary song. I can tell you that it was totally inspired. She had us sing that in closing. The lyrics were amazing and perfect for missionary work and the spirit was almost tangible in the room. The music kept building and building. The song got louder and louder as we sang. It got to one line that said something to the effect of we share our glad message with all who will hear. We go forth enlisted with Helaman's army in numbers far greater than ever before. That line is especially special to us sister missionaries since we are those numbers far greater than ever before. It hit us all, hard, and everyone started crying and we all had to stop singing, but the singing in the room didn't get any quieter, infact, it got louder and louder. It was overwhelming. It reminded me of when i was in the general conference choir and the choir director said that when you get that many worthy people together singing, that if they are all living how they should and are receptive to the spirit, you can hear the angels singing. I think that is exactly what happened. There is no other way that that could have happened. I am still in awe of that moment. I will always cherish it in my heart.
Søster Rogers is like a scripture queen. She knows a scripture for everything! She always finds the perfect scriptures for our situations of trials that we are dealing with. Well, she did it again this week. Someday i am going to be just like her. Anyway, we have all been crazy worried about our visas since we got our travel plans. It's been weighing down on all of us. It's kind of been distracting. So, Søster Rogers decided that she was going to find something to help us. What she found was amazing and fits our situation perfectly. The scriptures cease to amaze me. She read in 1 Nephi 7:12-13. It says:"Yea, and how is it that ye have forgotten that the Lord is able to do all things according to his will for the children of men, if it so be that they exercise faith in him? Wherefore, let us be faithful to him. And if it so be that we are faithful to him, we shall obtain the land of promise" I don't know if we could have read anything more perfect for us right now. The Lord is able to do ALL THINGS. If we are faithful, we shall obtain the land of promise. The land of promise to us is Denmark. We all got a piece of paper, signed by the prophet to tell us that we will be in Denmark. If that is the Lord's will, we will be in Denmark. Wow. And if we are not supposed to go to Denmark yet, then that is ok, because the Lord does all things according to His will. I love it. It brought so much peace to all of us and we have been able to focus much more now.
Jeg elsker jer!
Have a great week!
Kærlighed,

Søster Erin Handley

MTC Pictures


The smuk girls in my district :) (smuk=beatiful)